3rd Day of Christmas Gift Suggestions

White Night Pleasure Kit

New to the word of "adult essentials"? Don't want to get anything overtly "sexual"?  Recommend the White Night Pleasure Kit.  The White Night Kit has enough to get you going and keep you going. 

The White Night Kit offers  softer side to sexuality! The White Nights Pleasure Kit includes all the toys you will need for making an extraordinary evening. Staying up all night playing with a White Night is a sure way to a good time. Especially when it goes up Velvety Smooth. Doc Johnson's new collection, White Nights, will satisfy your cravings. This series is full of all of your favorites. All waterproof and all velvety soft. Our White Nights Kit comes complete with Vanilla scented massage oil, Velvet Touch 7-inch vibe, Pocket Rocket, and multi-speed vibrating egg.


The White Nights Pleasure Kit includes all the sex toy essentials that singles and couples could ever need. This vibrator kit comes with three classic sex toys: a vibrating egg, pocket rocket, and traditional vibrating dildo.

White Night Pleasure Kit Box

All three items are made of a soft, velvety material that effectively delivers arousing vibrations to your external and internal hot spots. This kit has all the sex toys you and your lover need to begin right away, and makes a wonderful present for eager female beginners.

The single-speed pocket rocket focuses on clit stimulation, and its nubby head adds a massaging effect to your clitoral titillation. The multi-speed egg vibrator sends powerful vibrations to your sensitive clitoris, but has the added advantage of an easy-to-operate hand controller that adjusts vibration intensity. The vibrating dildo is long, slim and soft, and adds internal stimulation to your wild bedroom foreplay and sex.

4th Day Coming tomorrow!

2nd Day of Christmas Gift Suggestions

Bnaughty Vibrator

Just like fingers massagers, bullet vibrators make great gifts. They are compact, versatile and inexpensive.  One of our favorites this holiday season is the Bnaughty Bullet for those who have been naughty!

With a velvety texture to both controller and bullet, this sensual toy exudes luxury. Waterproof and powerful, it’s the perfect companion for a night of pleasure.


The ergonomic controller can be held comfortably or handed off to a partner, thanks to a 31" long cord, to select one of four light-indicated speeds. Slide into a warm bath or hot shower, the Bnaughty will continue to deliver delicious vibration without interruption.

Presented in attractive designer packaging, it makes an excellent gift for a high-class lover or to accentuate your own impeccable tastes. The Bnaughty includes a soft drawstring storage bag for discretion and travel.

Be nice and give the Bnaughty!

Check out all of the Bullet Vibrators at Melrose Urban Female

1st Day of Christmas Gift Suggestions: Finger Vibes

It's the first day of December, and it's being to look alot like sex toy gift time!  It's a head-spinning ordeal for most of us.  Too many options.  Too many choices.  Too many reviews. Where to begin?  Well, we are going to take the next few days to offer up some simple gift options.  These can be gifts for friends or intimate partners. Even for you!

Our first suggestion is a finger vibrator. Finger vibrators are typically used for clitoral stimulation. Anyone who has used their fingers with the intent of bringing someone else or themselves to orgasm knows this can get tiring sometimes. Hence the invention of the finger vibrator... actually all vibrators! These little vibes are  inexpensive, discreet and versatile. They can be used to stimulate any sensitive zone. Finger vibes turn your fingers into mini massagers.  Use them on yourself or someone else... relax and enjoy. In addition to being budget friendly, they make great stocking stuffers. 

Finger Tingles

One our favorites is the Finger Tingles by Rocks Off.  The Finger Tingle literally turns your finger into a massager as it is worn around the finger. There is skin to skin contact.  Most finger vibrators are worn on the finger and the vibrator is what does the massaging.  Both kinds are absolutely fine, it's just a matter of preference. 

See Melrose Urban Female's Finger Vibrators.

Stay tuned for our next installment of MUF Gift Ideas!

New at Melrose Urban Female: Hathor Aphrodisia



Hathor Aphrodisia at MUF.com

Lubricants and lotions are a strange things.  Not that they strange -- in fact they are important essentials -- rather we find it odd that many of our customers will spend a good chunk of moolah on a vibrator and completely skip getting a lubricant.  Perhaps they are getting K-Y at Rite Aid or Duane Reade. And when customers do buy a personal lubricant, they are not as selective as they should be
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Just like there is a difference between the Lelo and the $5 plastic vibrator, there is a difference between lubricants. And we are very excited to add Hathor Aphrodisia to our store.  It's not the least expensive brand out there, but it is one of the best. Hathor Aphrodisia uses all natural ingredients and essential oils with active aphrodisiac properties. The aphrodisiac oils penetrate the skin to soften and relax the body. The breath carries the aromas to the limbic portion of the brain...the part that controls sexual urges...this creates a euphoric environment for intimacy.

With a lot of products out there, consumers have no idea who is making them, where they are being made, how they are being made and what is in them.  Hathor Aphrodisia is a women owned company in Victoria BC, Canada that will tell you everything you want or need to know about its products.  You can actually understand the names of their ingredients. A bottle of K-Y reads like a lab experiement. 

Co-owners/creators of Hathor Aprhodisia Mellta Swift and Nathanda Swift are skin experts and specialize in plant Aphrodisiacs. Before joining the erotic industry they manufactured spa treatment products including therapeutic oils, creams and lotions.

Hathor, known for naturalness and purity since its beginnings in 1989 was concerned about parabens and harsh chemicals long before the "green revolution" hit the market place. Hathor has supported organic farming and sustainable agriculture by importing organic and wild crafted essential oils from small farms around the world.

"Hathor is the feminine principal of health, beauty, sensuality, love...eroticism. It is all the same to us. We believe that sex plays an important role in health and well being. The Products that you purchase for sex should be as natural and healing as your facial products...and having aphrodisiacs in your facial products can only enhance your day!" ~ Mellta Swift

Please take a look at our Hathor Aphrodisia products.

Melrose Urban Female Lingerie Department

MUF Note: This blog entry is being written on a Sunday night when sports is on probably most TVs. World Series is happening and some sort of big football game, too. To all the ladies out there who are reading this, cheers! Hope you are enjoying a glass of wine. The ladies of MUF are! That's when we blog and that's why we have so many typos :)  Now to business...


Until recently, Melrose Urban Female really did not have much in itsclothing category. We had some vibrating thongs and Rubba Wear but nothing worth mentioning. It was not for a lack of wanting… there just did not seem to be anything interesting out there. What was available was rather tacky and the models looked and posed like strippers (not that there is anything wrong with strippers, but really... who amongst us has that type of body?)  We are not sure if a bigger demand brought forth more options or we just started looking harder.  Whateave the case,  we found some really nice lines of sexy apparel and have added them to our store. Our favorites are Rene Rofe and iCollection. 

What we particular love about these collections is they have queen and plus sizes. Larger woman want to look good and should have the opportunity without having to compromise style. We sell equal amounts of queen and regular sizes. Rene Rofe and iCollection really do design for the woman's body and man’s eye. Their styles are sensual and tasteful and a bit naughty. And the models are lovely looking ladies who posed with a come-hither look rather than "Come watch my pole dance."

What also makes us fans, other than the wide variety of sizes, is the wide variety of styles. Babydoll lingerie, garter belts and hosiery, crotchless fishnet body stockings, peek-a-boo bra and panty sets. In other words, there is something for everyone’s taste and body type. And more importantly, these are very affordable. Rene Rofe designs for Victoria Secret. So you are getting some very great fashions, great quality and great prices.

We welcome you to take a look at the Melrose Urban Female Sexy Clothing Department and see for yourself and let us know what you think.  We've been working hard to find designs that appeal to both woman of all ages and sizes.  Not to mention both sexes. As always, thanks for reading this and being such great MUF supporters!

Foreplay Tips of the Week

Foreplay isn’t just a little pre-entertainment before the big event. It’s what puts the “ohhh, ohhh” in your big O. You get more blood flowing from the extremities of the body towards the parts that needs it and heightened sensitivity all over. Get enough of the fuel going and even a light caress on the shoulder with make you throb.

Here are 5 instant turn-ons to get in the mood. And surprise… you’ll be fully clothed! Talk the talk. Memorize the following phrases and use your at your own risk. They work.

1. Caress your lover’s cheek and say three simple words: “I want you.”

2. Any email or text longer than “CU later” will keep you on each other’s brain all day and make it easier to slip into some one-on-one action when you are F2F.

3. Scream “Boo!” Scaring each other stimulates the neuron transmitter dopamine in the brain, which can trigger sex drive.

4. Give a compliment. It will make your lover feel noticed, special and appreciated, and closer to you… all of which add up to him/her feeling more inclined to make you feel good in bed.

5. Saying, “I don’t need to answer that” if your iPhone goes off while you’re together guarantees an orgasm later.

More tips next week...

Excerpt from The 100 Best Foreplay Tips Ever!

Available at Melrose Urban Female

Does Size Really Matter? Yes.

This blog is aimed towards men.  We have noticed a recurring theme.  Men who order dildos for women typically go overboard and order ones that are way, way too big.  Instead of shrieks of delight, the women recoil in disgust. It's a mood killer for sure. And the question is always asked, "what were you thinking?!"  We've been on the other end of the phone too many times and have heared this same story over and over again. 

Our advice when selecting a dildo: error on the side of small.  Men, unless you have been told specifically to get the biggest, fattest dildo money can buy, DON'T BUY A BIG ONE!  It might not seem like much, but in the fake penis world, the difference between half an inch and an inch is expediential.  You would be very surprised at the difference between  an 8" long x 1.5" wide dong  and a 10" x 2".  It's the difference between "thank you, Sweetheart" and "Are you nuts?! Get that thing away from me!"

Also it's a matter of functionality.  A smaller dildo will still get the job done. The monster-sized one is not going  anywhere... other than the closet.  In other words, you can work with a smallish dildo. But if the Biggie is too big, it's no good to anyone. So when choosing a dildo, choose thoughtfully

To be honest, women are guilty of going too big, too. But they made their own mistake.   For men, it's worst. Their suprise gift backfired on them... in very big, unromantic way. When buying a dildo online, take the time to look at a ruler. Or if you are really in doubt, buy a vibrator.  Women never complain about those.