1st Day of Christmas Gift Suggestions: Finger Vibes

It's the first day of December, and it's being to look alot like sex toy gift time!  It's a head-spinning ordeal for most of us.  Too many options.  Too many choices.  Too many reviews. Where to begin?  Well, we are going to take the next few days to offer up some simple gift options.  These can be gifts for friends or intimate partners. Even for you!

Our first suggestion is a finger vibrator. Finger vibrators are typically used for clitoral stimulation. Anyone who has used their fingers with the intent of bringing someone else or themselves to orgasm knows this can get tiring sometimes. Hence the invention of the finger vibrator... actually all vibrators! These little vibes are  inexpensive, discreet and versatile. They can be used to stimulate any sensitive zone. Finger vibes turn your fingers into mini massagers.  Use them on yourself or someone else... relax and enjoy. In addition to being budget friendly, they make great stocking stuffers. 

Finger Tingles

One our favorites is the Finger Tingles by Rocks Off.  The Finger Tingle literally turns your finger into a massager as it is worn around the finger. There is skin to skin contact.  Most finger vibrators are worn on the finger and the vibrator is what does the massaging.  Both kinds are absolutely fine, it's just a matter of preference. 

See Melrose Urban Female's Finger Vibrators.

Stay tuned for our next installment of MUF Gift Ideas!

New at Melrose Urban Female: Hathor Aphrodisia



Hathor Aphrodisia at MUF.com

Lubricants and lotions are a strange things.  Not that they strange -- in fact they are important essentials -- rather we find it odd that many of our customers will spend a good chunk of moolah on a vibrator and completely skip getting a lubricant.  Perhaps they are getting K-Y at Rite Aid or Duane Reade. And when customers do buy a personal lubricant, they are not as selective as they should be
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Just like there is a difference between the Lelo and the $5 plastic vibrator, there is a difference between lubricants. And we are very excited to add Hathor Aphrodisia to our store.  It's not the least expensive brand out there, but it is one of the best. Hathor Aphrodisia uses all natural ingredients and essential oils with active aphrodisiac properties. The aphrodisiac oils penetrate the skin to soften and relax the body. The breath carries the aromas to the limbic portion of the brain...the part that controls sexual urges...this creates a euphoric environment for intimacy.

With a lot of products out there, consumers have no idea who is making them, where they are being made, how they are being made and what is in them.  Hathor Aphrodisia is a women owned company in Victoria BC, Canada that will tell you everything you want or need to know about its products.  You can actually understand the names of their ingredients. A bottle of K-Y reads like a lab experiement. 

Co-owners/creators of Hathor Aprhodisia Mellta Swift and Nathanda Swift are skin experts and specialize in plant Aphrodisiacs. Before joining the erotic industry they manufactured spa treatment products including therapeutic oils, creams and lotions.

Hathor, known for naturalness and purity since its beginnings in 1989 was concerned about parabens and harsh chemicals long before the "green revolution" hit the market place. Hathor has supported organic farming and sustainable agriculture by importing organic and wild crafted essential oils from small farms around the world.

"Hathor is the feminine principal of health, beauty, sensuality, love...eroticism. It is all the same to us. We believe that sex plays an important role in health and well being. The Products that you purchase for sex should be as natural and healing as your facial products...and having aphrodisiacs in your facial products can only enhance your day!" ~ Mellta Swift

Please take a look at our Hathor Aphrodisia products.

Melrose Urban Female Lingerie Department

MUF Note: This blog entry is being written on a Sunday night when sports is on probably most TVs. World Series is happening and some sort of big football game, too. To all the ladies out there who are reading this, cheers! Hope you are enjoying a glass of wine. The ladies of MUF are! That's when we blog and that's why we have so many typos :)  Now to business...


Until recently, Melrose Urban Female really did not have much in itsclothing category. We had some vibrating thongs and Rubba Wear but nothing worth mentioning. It was not for a lack of wanting… there just did not seem to be anything interesting out there. What was available was rather tacky and the models looked and posed like strippers (not that there is anything wrong with strippers, but really... who amongst us has that type of body?)  We are not sure if a bigger demand brought forth more options or we just started looking harder.  Whateave the case,  we found some really nice lines of sexy apparel and have added them to our store. Our favorites are Rene Rofe and iCollection. 

What we particular love about these collections is they have queen and plus sizes. Larger woman want to look good and should have the opportunity without having to compromise style. We sell equal amounts of queen and regular sizes. Rene Rofe and iCollection really do design for the woman's body and man’s eye. Their styles are sensual and tasteful and a bit naughty. And the models are lovely looking ladies who posed with a come-hither look rather than "Come watch my pole dance."

What also makes us fans, other than the wide variety of sizes, is the wide variety of styles. Babydoll lingerie, garter belts and hosiery, crotchless fishnet body stockings, peek-a-boo bra and panty sets. In other words, there is something for everyone’s taste and body type. And more importantly, these are very affordable. Rene Rofe designs for Victoria Secret. So you are getting some very great fashions, great quality and great prices.

We welcome you to take a look at the Melrose Urban Female Sexy Clothing Department and see for yourself and let us know what you think.  We've been working hard to find designs that appeal to both woman of all ages and sizes.  Not to mention both sexes. As always, thanks for reading this and being such great MUF supporters!

Foreplay Tips of the Week

Foreplay isn’t just a little pre-entertainment before the big event. It’s what puts the “ohhh, ohhh” in your big O. You get more blood flowing from the extremities of the body towards the parts that needs it and heightened sensitivity all over. Get enough of the fuel going and even a light caress on the shoulder with make you throb.

Here are 5 instant turn-ons to get in the mood. And surprise… you’ll be fully clothed! Talk the talk. Memorize the following phrases and use your at your own risk. They work.

1. Caress your lover’s cheek and say three simple words: “I want you.”

2. Any email or text longer than “CU later” will keep you on each other’s brain all day and make it easier to slip into some one-on-one action when you are F2F.

3. Scream “Boo!” Scaring each other stimulates the neuron transmitter dopamine in the brain, which can trigger sex drive.

4. Give a compliment. It will make your lover feel noticed, special and appreciated, and closer to you… all of which add up to him/her feeling more inclined to make you feel good in bed.

5. Saying, “I don’t need to answer that” if your iPhone goes off while you’re together guarantees an orgasm later.

More tips next week...

Excerpt from The 100 Best Foreplay Tips Ever!

Available at Melrose Urban Female

Does Size Really Matter? Yes.

This blog is aimed towards men.  We have noticed a recurring theme.  Men who order dildos for women typically go overboard and order ones that are way, way too big.  Instead of shrieks of delight, the women recoil in disgust. It's a mood killer for sure. And the question is always asked, "what were you thinking?!"  We've been on the other end of the phone too many times and have heared this same story over and over again. 

Our advice when selecting a dildo: error on the side of small.  Men, unless you have been told specifically to get the biggest, fattest dildo money can buy, DON'T BUY A BIG ONE!  It might not seem like much, but in the fake penis world, the difference between half an inch and an inch is expediential.  You would be very surprised at the difference between  an 8" long x 1.5" wide dong  and a 10" x 2".  It's the difference between "thank you, Sweetheart" and "Are you nuts?! Get that thing away from me!"

Also it's a matter of functionality.  A smaller dildo will still get the job done. The monster-sized one is not going  anywhere... other than the closet.  In other words, you can work with a smallish dildo. But if the Biggie is too big, it's no good to anyone. So when choosing a dildo, choose thoughtfully

To be honest, women are guilty of going too big, too. But they made their own mistake.   For men, it's worst. Their suprise gift backfired on them... in very big, unromantic way. When buying a dildo online, take the time to look at a ruler. Or if you are really in doubt, buy a vibrator.  Women never complain about those. 

The Ride On is BACK!

Yes, our Company is Melrose Urban Female and that could imply we cater to women. But we honestly try to meet the demands and needs of all.  And there is one "need" in particular we have become aware of... men with ED (erectile dysfunction). Believe it or not, we do sell a lot of extenders and girth enhancers to men who want to add a some length and width to otherwise healthy erections.  However, men with ED need support and typically extenders do not offer that. That is why we're big fans of  Vixen Creation's Ride On.  This is a hollow strapless strap-on, that offers comfort to the wearer and the receiver. It provides girth, length and support.  And it's very realistic looking and feeling. 

The Ride On Extender


Most complaints about hollow strap-ons come from women.  Men use them to please their partner only to find out it's too big and too hard. Not true with the Ride.  It was crafted with everyone in mind.



The Ride On Extender - Dark

 The Ride On was sculpted by Gina Dominguez, sculptor extraordinaire, in 2008, after an exhaustive year of research and development. At that time customers were requesting a user-friendly alternative to hard, toxic, smelly and unsightly PPAs then available. Gina worked to create a softer alternative, but not too soft! After lots of incarnations, Vixen Creations produced this luxurious product, made of our signature premium silicone.

Because of rising production costs, The Ride on was put on hiatus.  Everything has been worked out and it's back.  It cost more... but what doesn't? And judging by our customers' demand, they are okay with spending a few extra dollars.

Interested in extensions and extenders?  Click here to our selection.  Remember, these have been selected by our female staff as being penis worthy.

Icicle No.4 Wins 'O' Award

Here at MUF, we were very excited when Pipedream revealed its new line of glass prouducts called Icicles. Great design and quality at a very good price. We were happy to add them to our store. Since their arrival, they have been very popular with our customers, and we have received excellent feedback.  So we were not all surprised when Pipedream was honored at the 2011 'O Awards' when its Icicles No. 4 Vibrating Mini Twister won in the 'Best Powered Product' category. Now in its 3rd year, The O Awards recognize the very best in the pleasure products industry.

Award Winning Icicle No. 4

"We would like to thank the AVN Media Network for the nomination and all who voted for us," says Nick Orlandino, CEO of Pipedream. "We put a lot of time and energy into our Icicles hand blown glass massagers. To have that hard work recognized by our peers in this industry is truly an honor."

Icicles No. 4--also known as the Vibrating Mini Twister to some--is part of the best-selling collection of hand blown glass massagers. It features 10 patterns of pulsation, is curved for G-spot stimulation and can be used for intimate stimulation with or without its attachable remote controlled vibrating bullet.

Like all of the massagers in the Icicles collection, No. 4 is made of borosilicate glass, which is ultra hygienic, nonporous, easy to heat and cool, built to last and includes a luxury gift box that doubles as a storage. 

If you have never tried glass, you might want to check out Glass Products at Melrose Urban Female.